I love the bouquet toss, I think it is because I am competitive and I love free things. You should see me in the food court at the mall! It does not matter that I am a germ-a-phob, I will take any free food that they want to hand me ( this could coincide with my fat-kid tendencies). In the supermarket, I am a beast, passing people left and right, cutting people off, I am not sure why I believe I am forever on Supermarket Sweep, but I do and I think if I get to check-out lane 15 before the man in the wheeler, I have done my part. This being said, I love the bouquet toss, the thrill of flowers indicating when I will get married is exciting! I caught the bouquet at my brother's wedding when I was 7 and didn't get my first boyfriend until....well that is besides the point!
Glenn and I argued the bouquet toss for a while, he believed I should be allowed on the floor since "technically" I was the next one to be married. I told him I was not "single" anymore and that was forbidden. He said I was never technically single and then laughed because he said I was now in limbo. No longer a single gal, but not yet a married lady. I think Britney Spears said it best, "I'm not a girl, not yet a woman". Yes, I know you all now have that song in your head and Britney's sweet innocent face in your mind ( you are welcome).
So here I am, in limbo, it is a strange place to be in that involves cake tasting, dress shopping, guest list checking, venue looking, photographs taken and reflection and the past, the present and the near future. I am not yet a married woman, not really single, but still oh so competitive!
